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The Joy of Reading Again: How I Rebuilt My Reading Habit

The Joy of Reading Again: How I Rebuilt My Reading Habit
In short

Many of us loved reading as children and slowly lost the habit to screens and busy lives. Simple, realistic ways to fall in love with books again — even with just 15 minutes a day.

When I was in school, I read everything I could find — storybooks, magazines, old newspapers, even the paper wrapped around groceries. Somewhere between college, career and smartphones, that habit quietly disappeared. One day I realised that I hadn't finished a full book in a long time, yet I was scrolling for hours every day.

That realisation hurt a little. As someone who writes stories and poetry, I knew reading was the water that keeps writing alive. So I decided to bring books back into my life. Here is what worked.

📚 Why Reading Still Matters

In a world full of short videos and quick posts, reading a book feels slow. That slowness is exactly its value.

  • Deep focus: reading trains our attention, which constant scrolling weakens.
  • Empathy: stories let us live inside another person's mind and life.
  • Better thinking and writing: good reading improves how we speak and write.
  • Calm: a book before bed is far more relaxing than a bright screen.

🌱 Start Small — Really Small

My mistake in earlier attempts was setting big goals like "50 books this year". I would start with energy and give up by February. This time, I started with just 15 minutes a day.

Fifteen minutes is about 10–15 pages for most people. That can add up to well over a dozen books in a year. Small and steady wins.

📖 Choose Books You Actually Enjoy

Many people stop reading because they force themselves through "important" books that bore them. Reading again should feel like a pleasure, not homework.

  • Start with genres you loved as a child — adventure, detective stories, humour.
  • Read in your mother tongue too. Reading Tamil novels and short stories again brought back a special joy for me.
  • Short story collections are perfect for busy people — one story, one sitting.
  • If a book doesn't hold you after 50 pages, it's okay to stop and pick another.

📱 Make Space by Reducing Screen Time

The time for reading has to come from somewhere, and for most of us, it comes from the phone. A few things helped me:

  • Keeping a book on the bedside table and the phone charging in another room.
  • Replacing the first 15 minutes of evening scrolling with reading.
  • One phone-free day a week — I describe it in my phone-free Sunday.

E-readers and reading apps are fine too, but turn off notifications while reading.

🏛️ Use Libraries and Book Fairs

Books don't have to be expensive. District and branch public libraries have a wide collection, often for a small membership fee. The Chennai Book Fair, usually held in January, and other book fairs across Tamil Nadu are wonderful places to discover new authors. Second-hand bookshops and swapping books with friends are also great options.

👨‍👩‍👧 Reading as a Family

Children copy what we do, not what we say. When they see parents reading, they pick up books naturally. In our home, a short family reading time after dinner — everyone with their own book — has become one of my favourite parts of the day. It also helps with managing kids' screen time without fights.

“A book is a quiet friend who waits patiently until you return.”

✍️ Remember What You Read

  • Underline or note lines that touch you.
  • After finishing a book, write three things you learned or felt.
  • Talk about books with friends — it makes the ideas stay longer.

🌱 Takeaway

You don't need hours or big goals to become a reader again. Fifteen minutes a day, books you genuinely enjoy, less scrolling and a little family reading time are enough. Pick up one book today — the joy you thought you lost is still waiting between its pages.

Namasivayam Vadivelan
Namasivayam Vadivelan

Software engineer by skill, storyteller by soul. I write about life, health, money and technology from my own experience — and build free tools you can use every day.